You’re Not Too Much: A Love Letter to the Misunderstood Go-Getter

Somewhere along the way, someone told you that you were a lot.

Too loud. Too emotional. Too intense. Too driven. Too creative. Too passionate. Too much.

So you started shrinking. Softening the edges. Editing your enthusiasm. Toning down your truth so it would fit more comfortably into other people’s expectations. You learned to carry your dreams quietly, cautiously, carefully.

But here’s the truth no one told you back then:
You’re not too much. You’re just misunderstood.
You’re wired for more - more connection, more purpose, more vision, more fire.

And the world needs what you carry.

You’re Not the Problem

You’ve got ideas coming faster than your pen can write them. You think in color. You feel deeply. You speak up when something doesn’t sit right. You ask hard questions. You see the big picture while others are still focused on the next step.

That’s not a flaw - that’s a gift.

People might not always know what to do with your energy or your intensity. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. It might just mean you’re in the wrong room.

Or maybe - you’re in exactly the right room, and you’re there to shake things up.

You Don’t Have to Apologize for Who You Are

You don’t have to play small to make others comfortable.
You don’t have to explain your passion or over-edit your presence.
You don’t need to “settle down” or “be realistic” or “tone it down a notch.”

You are not too much. You are whole. You are bold. You are needed.

You are the spark in the room. The energy in the meeting. The one who sees potential before anyone else. The one who leads with heart, shows up with intention, and lives life with color and creativity.

Yes, you may overwhelm some people. But you also inspire others.
Yes, your dreams may seem too big for some. But that’s because they weren’t given your vision.

To the Big-Hearted, Bright-Souled Go-Getter:

This is your permission slip.

To speak boldly.
To dream unapologetically.
To create freely.
To lead authentically.
To take up space with all the brilliance and depth you carry.

You’re not broken. You’re not over the top. You’re not too much.
You are exactly the right amount of you.

So, let’s stop shrinking.
Let’s stop editing ourselves.
Let’s be the kind of “too much” this world desperately needs more of.

And if this resonates with you...

You’re my people.

This is the work I do. I help women and leaders like you reclaim your voice, your creativity, and your sense of purpose. Whether it’s through expressive arts, self-discovery, or leadership development - I help you show up more fully, more freely, and more you.

If that sounds like something you’re ready for, let’s talk.
In the meantime, take a deep breath, take up space, and take the next step.

The world doesn’t need less of you.
It needs all of you.